Upcoming Events

First time attendees: In order to attend one of our retreats, you must be referred by a current community member and complete an interview process. If you have any questions or wish to start the process, please submit your information on the contact form. We look forward to hearing from you.

Returning members: If you have not been to a TBS retreat in the past five years, we ask that you also submit your information on the contact form so that we can touch base with you.

Remember: If you have a new friend or partner you’d like to invite to TBS, they need to apply as a First Time Attendee. We highly recommend that First Time Attendees have some experience with similar workshops prior to attending their first TBS retreat.

2025 TBS Spring Retreat

April 10 to April 13, 2025

Tubac Ranch, Arizona

Living Eros: Aging Gracefully, Loving Deeply, Living Fully," a celebration of the sacred journey of aging, sensuality, and erotic aliveness.

Anna, Doug, and Nikki are excited to invite you to a soulful and playful weekend retreat celebrating life, love, and connection for people in their 30s through their 80s and beyond. Aging is universal, and this weekend is about embracing it as a journey filled with strength, beauty, and sensuality. Whether you’re already navigating the changes that come with getting older or it’s not yet on your radar, you’ll find plenty here to inspire, ground, and energize you.

Our shared vision is a safe, welcoming space where everyone can come together to explore and celebrate the beauty of their bodies, relationships, and sexualities as they grow and evolve over time. Throughout the weekend, we’ll spend time in gender groups, share the ups and downs of living fully in our bodies—whether that means aging, shifting desires, evolving sexual abilities, or dealing with illness and chronic pain. We’ll honor every part of who we are as we rediscover the energy and joy of erotic aliveness and the strength that comes from being in community.

By the end of the weekend, you’ll feel inspired, grounded, and alive, with a deeper appreciation for the beauty of your own unique journey—no matter your age. Together, we’ll deepen friendships, celebrate relationships, and reconnect with our own sensual magic.

We can’t wait to share this experience with you, mixing some fresh, unexpected surprises with the meaningful traditions we’ve all come to love.

Come flirt, dance, and play as we learn to discover and to be with our desires. Join in an authentic relating experience as we practice asking for what we want. Gain confidence in how you can be met in your desire. There will be lots of opportunities for touch, flirting, dates and playing in a Temple all within the sacred connection of community.

2025 TBS Summer Retreat

July 30 to August 3, 2025

Shalom Mountain, NY State

2025 TBS Fall Retreat

October 9 to October 12, 2025

Tubac Ranch, Arizona

Intro to TBS

The TBS Board is looking for community members to host these events.

Please contact one of the Board members if you’d like to host!